Why do we get stressed?
Stress is a Desire of the Ego, there is no
actual stress or anxiety in the world its your own thoughts that create these
false beliefs. You can not package stress, you can not touch stress and you can
not see it. When we think stressfully, we create reactions in the body,
valuable messages or signals requesting our attention.
What are the SOS Signals of Stress?
The messages may be revealed through
nausea, elevated blood pressure, stomach tension, indigestion, ulcers, head
aches, in creased heart rate, difficult breathing, and a zillion other things.
Most people will experience these signals of stress but why…
We create The stress in our lives:
You may hear people or even your self say
things like “ I am having an anxiety attach” But the stress in your body is
rarely the result of external forces, it is the result of the weakened
connecting link to intention caused by your belief that your ego is who you
are.
Why Ego and Stress Stands in the way off
our own inner peace:
We are peace and joy, but we can allow our selves
to be dominated by our Ego.. here is a short list of stress inducing thoughts
that originate in your ego self:
- Its more important to be right than to be happy
- Winning is the only thing. When you lose, you should be stressed
- Your reputation is more important than your relation ship with the source
- Success is measured in dollars rather than in feeling happy and content
- Being superior to others is more important than being kind to others
In Dr Wayne W. Dyer’s book on “ The power
of Intention” he tells a story on the Rule Number 6 and I wish I had read this
sooner…
“ Two
prime ministers are sitting in a room discussing affairs of state. Suddenly a
Man bursts in apoplectic with fury, shouting and stamping and banging his fist
on the desk. The resident prime minister admonishes him: “ Peter” he says, “
Kindly remember Rule Number 6,” Peter instantly restored to complete calm,
apologizes and withdrawals. The Politian’s return to their conversation, only
to be interrupted yet again twenty minutes later by an hysterical woman who was
gesticulating wildly, her hair flying. Again the intruder is greeted with the
words: “ Marie, please remember Rule Number 6.” Complete calm descends once
more, and she too with drawls with a bow and an apology. The visiting prime
minister addresses his colleague: “ My dear friend I have seen many things in
my life, but never seen any thing as remarkable as this. Would you be able to
share the secret of Rule number 6? “ Very simple” replies the resident prime
minister. “ Rule Number 6 is … ‘ Don’t take your self so god dam seriously’. “
Ah” says the visitor. “ That is a fine rule” After a moment of pondering he ask.
“and what, may I ask, are the other rules?”
“There
aren’t any”
As
you encounter Stress, Pressure or Anxiety remember Rule Number 6 and at that
moment let go of what the Ego is saying and bring your self back in to a calm
and relaxed state and for heavens sake “ Don’t take Your Self So God Dam
Seriously”
Nikki x
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