THE LIGHT BULB MOMENTS

Have you ever had that moment when it feels like all your prayers have been answered that you just came up with the best idea in the entire world, or you have finally figured out what you want to do as a career or what to study ? or that sheer genius instinct to just pack the bags and hit the high road and go travel explore and fulfill the dreams that have been building up in your mind?

I call these the  "Light Bulb Moments" and you MUST pay attention to them. . . .

What are the Light Bulb Moments telling us? 

When these ideas and thoughts come into our awareness it is because we have attracted it and it is saying out loud ( HEY YOU!! yes you, lets get this started) At the time we are buzzing with excitement to go out and start that project or idea that we have been holding off. We have a flood of emotions run through us, feelings of excitement, empowerment, enthusiasm, happiness and feeling like we just dropped a mentos into a coke bottle and its about to explode. 

What Bursts our Light Bulb?

Be careful who you share your light bulb moments with, not every one is excited as you are about your amazing ideas, and some people would love to burst that little happy bubble that is surrounding you so they can bring you back down, saying things like:

• Thats way to hard, you could never do that!
• Thats a stupid idea!
• You must be dreaming! 
• Why did you want to do that? 

So instead ...

Open up to your self, write down your ideas, dreams and goals. Writing them down on a page may seem daunting and you might start to realise its all a bit to hard. Just remember "Rome wasn't built in a day" and confide in some one who you trust and who will encourage you to do what you want and love.

Some Thing To Remember: 

We are all spirits in our own body having a human experience, we have no limits and we can achieve anything we put our mind to. You just have to want it and stick with it. 

" Regardless of how absurd your inner callings might seem, they're authentically yours. They dont have to make sense to any one else" 

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Nikki xx

DONT FORGET - RULE NUMBER 6

Why do we get stressed?

Stress is a Desire of the Ego, there is no actual stress or anxiety in the world its your own thoughts that create these false beliefs. You can not package stress, you can not touch stress and you can not see it. When we think stressfully, we create reactions in the body, valuable messages or signals requesting our attention.

What are the SOS Signals of Stress?

The messages may be revealed through nausea, elevated blood pressure, stomach tension, indigestion, ulcers, head aches, in creased heart rate, difficult breathing, and a zillion other things. Most people will experience these signals of stress but why…

We create The stress in our lives:

You may hear people or even your self say things like “ I am having an anxiety attach” But the stress in your body is rarely the result of external forces, it is the result of the weakened connecting link to intention caused by your belief that your ego is who you are.

Why Ego and Stress Stands in the way off our own inner peace:

We are peace and joy, but we can allow our selves to be dominated by our Ego.. here is a short list of stress inducing thoughts that originate in your ego self:

•  Its more important to be right than to be happy
• Winning is the only thing. When you lose, you should be stressed
• Your reputation is more important than your relation ship with the source
•  Success is measured in dollars rather than in feeling happy and content
• Being superior to others is more important than being kind to others

 In Dr Wayne W. Dyer’s book on “ The power of Intention” he tells a story on the Rule Number 6 and I wish I had read this sooner…

“ Two prime ministers are sitting in a room discussing affairs of state. Suddenly a Man bursts in apoplectic with fury, shouting and stamping and banging his fist on the desk. The resident prime minister admonishes him: “ Peter” he says, “ Kindly remember Rule Number 6,” Peter instantly restored to complete calm, apologizes and withdrawals. The Politian’s return to their conversation, only to be interrupted yet again twenty minutes later by an hysterical woman who was gesticulating wildly, her hair flying. Again the intruder is greeted with the words: “ Marie, please remember Rule Number 6.” Complete calm descends once more, and she too with drawls with a bow and an apology. The visiting prime minister addresses his colleague: “ My dear friend I have seen many things in my life, but never seen any thing as remarkable as this. Would you be able to share the secret of Rule number 6? “ Very simple” replies the resident prime minister. “ Rule Number 6 is … ‘ Don’t take your self so god dam seriously’. “ Ah” says the visitor. “ That is a fine rule” After a moment of pondering he ask. “and what, may I ask, are the other rules?”

“There aren’t any”

As you encounter Stress, Pressure or Anxiety remember Rule Number 6 and at that moment let go of what the Ego is saying and bring your self back in to a calm and relaxed state and for heavens sake “ Don’t take Your Self So God Dam Seriously” 

Nikki x

Breaking Through The Barrier

Hello world, 

Welcome to my journey of creating a life full of balance, stillness, happiness, joy and warmth. 

Four months ago, I came up with the idea to start "Mirror My Manifest" with the intention that i will inspire people to live a life that you deserve. However with this intention still in my mind, my big fat ugly Ego decided to pay a visit and was holding me back from making any real progress at all. 

What is Ego you ask?

Ego is every thing external from our inner self. We are NOT defined by:

• Our Job Title 
• The type of Car we drive
• Where we live 
• The money in our pockets 
• The colour of our hair
• The brand names that we wear  
• The list goes on and on...

What really defines us all is how we are to others and more importantly our self, we are all equal and we all have our own struggles and thats what makes us human and what makes us grow. 

My biggest struggle to press the button to launch this web site was the FEAR that it would FAIL. Two huge words that are led by the EGO. I had a choice to fight the Ego or Flight and i decided to pull up my socks and get the ball rolling and it feels AMAZING. 

If we have not met before here are a few things you should know about me:

• My name is Nicola but i like "Nikki"
• My middel names are "Patricia Ruth " (Thanks Mum & Dad)
• I am an Aquarian 
• I am 22 years young 
• I am an Affirmation junkie 
• In 2006 i was awarded " The Happiest Person Of The Year" (best award iv ever received)
• I work in the crazy PR
• I am a proud God mother and an Aunty 
• I am a chocoholic that is trying to get help
• I enjoy a good quality nap 

And i shall leave you with some of my favourite quotes.

"Part of me suspects i'm a loser, and part of me thinks i'm God Almighty" 

- John Lennon

"your imagination is able to do all that you ask in proportion to the degree of your intention"

-Neville

"Change your thoughts and you can change your world"

-unknown

Nikki. x